Boundaries and dating
I’m sleepy.” Sometimes this happens during the “honeymoon period,” when both parties tend to see eye-to-eye on everything. Cloud) are close, Nick and Colleen, mentioned the same problem at dinner one night.
But when the reality of two different wills, needs, and perspectives comes in, the honeymoon is over. Nick said, “Sometimes Colleen withdraws from me for no reason at all.” “There is a reason,” Colleen replied. “I felt the pressure of not being able to say no.” The light went on for Nick as he saw how his desire for good things sometimes crossed the line of respect.
Today, our definitions and expectations of commitment are transforming.
Were there talks about getting married or just continuing to live together?
We sort out ex-lovers—do we know about them, talk about them, stay friends with them on Facebook?
Whether above board or below, we delineate the boundaries of separateness and togetherness.
He talked about some reasons, most of which had to do with the various players involved, and also the “constellations” of a few teams.
I asked him why he thought those problems were there.