You're *almost* ready to jump into the online dating fray – you've chosen a dating site and written a profile that will grab her attention, so the hard part's over, right? And you'll want to put some thought into this, because women are visual creatures – just like you.
You can have the most amazing profile in the world, but if your photos suck, so do your chances of getting dates with attractive women.
What about the people who don’t even read your profile and just comment on your photos? Call me.” And what about the Cut-and-Paste-dater, the one who sends the same email to 100 people, hoping a few will respond? Yep, a lot of creeps and people who never grew up are dating online. As annoying as those people can be, they don’t represent the entire population.
So please don’t quit online dating because of a few rotten tomatoes.
"I'm a lawyer, and it's a job that takes up a lot of time," she says.
"I didn't know how I was going to meet someone, especially when with what little free time I had I wanted to spend it with my friends." Heeding advice from friends living in New York City, Allison turned to the Internet.
And if you're not that hot, don't worry – keep reading for how to be magnetic and irresistible to women, no matter what you look like.
What the hell are you supposed to say about yourself in your profile? [pagebreak] OUT-OF-TOWN AND OUT OF TOUCH The scenario: “A guy sent me a message saying that he wanted to meet up for a drink, but when I asked when he was free, he said he was ‘going out of town’ for the next two weeks and that we should schedule something after.” — Andrea, 31 The problem..the solution: If you tell a girl you’re “going out of town,” she’s going to assume you’re busy dating other women.
Photos are essential to your online dating success.
Studies have shown that women take about 1/10th of a second to form an impression of someone in a photograph.
"There weren't a lot of people using the Internet to date back then," she says.
"I had to go to Kinko's and scan in a picture of myself for my profile." Soon after that, she was on a date.